Nowadays the in-thing for men is going out with women who are older than them. Of course there are a number of benefits to this such as a higher maturity level and less insecurity but for some people it is as simple as desiring older women more than younger ones. Meeting older women is not as hard as it looks and with the help of the tips below, you will soon gain practice and confidence.
The first thing you can do is to make a point of going to places where cougar generally congregate or visit. Bars and clubs are a first and this is where you will find older women in the largest numbers.
Remember older women will usually be in large or small groups so you will have to employ the tactics laid out below in order to separate the one of your choice from her friends.
Dancing is one way to accomplish this. This also gives you a chance to tell her a little bit about yourself and for you to find out a little about her. Make sure to practice your moves in advance so that you do not make a fool out of yourself.
The more comfortable you are with your body, the more confidence you will exude which has a direct impact on how attractive you appear to the next person.
Remember only attractiveness is not going to get you very far, you need to be suitably knowledgeable. You need to be able to converse with confidence on a variety of topics. Older women have experienced more of life so they are not going to be impressed with a dull, uninformed boy who doesn’t know what he is talking about. If you can talk confidently, you are going to go very far indeed in the older women arena.
Being very kind and nice is also going to work out in your favor since older women respond greatly to that especially if they are recovering from something traumatic like a divorce. Buying them drinks also forms a lasting impression of generosity.
After this you will be able to get the woman’s number and you can initiate a first date from there. Make sure you call after a few days and don’t leave a lot of gap of time in-between calls. The more attentive you are the better response you will get.
There are two great websites for these types of people who want to meet. Rather than review them individually, I’m just going to place links to where you can find out more information about them.
The first one is Adult Friend Finder. The second one, is the Fling.com online dating site. Both are very well trafficked and used sites. You can check out those reviews and figure out which one you would like to use. (Or like this guy you can use both!)